United Power

There is power in your family. When God unites a man and woman in marriage, He does so with a purpose. In Matthew 19:5-6, Jesus says, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, let no one separate." This means your union is meant to produce something great. When you recognize this, you must also understand that the enemy will do everything in his power to sever this union. His goal is to uproot the seed God has planted in your marriage and stop His divine plan. Every weapon in the enemy’s arsenal will be used, and he will stop at nothing. This is why fighting for your marriage, your family, and your purpose must be your mission. Let’s walk through it together.

1. Financial Struggles – A Common Battlefield

One of the most common stressors in marriage is finances. One spouse may be a saver, while the other is more carefree with money. Disagreements over spending habits and financial goals can create division. Before allowing financial struggles to erode the love and passion in your marriage, recognize this as a weapon from the enemy.

• Understand that financial differences often stem from upbringing and past experiences. You are now one, and it is crucial to find common ground.

• Have open and honest conversations about financial goals. Break unhealthy spending habits and work together to establish a financial plan that aligns with God’s purpose for your family.

• Instead of engaging in a tug-of-war over money, focus on building a legacy together. Trust God to guide your financial decisions and protect your marriage from unnecessary strife.

2. Parenting – A Potential Source of Division

Raising children can bring confusion when parents have differing views on discipline, education, or overall upbringing. One may be more lenient while the other is strict. If not handled with unity, these differences can cause division, which is not of God.

• As one, you must stand in agreement on parenting decisions. A divided front opens the door for conflict, and the enemy will use this to disrupt your family.

• Children learn by observing their parents. They will reflect your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Stay in harmony and work together to raise them in a way that honors God.

• The enemy seeks to attack your children because they are a continuation of your faith and legacy. Guard their hearts, minds, and souls with every ounce of strength you have—together. A woven rope is far stronger than a single thread.

3. Fidelity – A Strong Weapon of Protection

Faithfulness in marriage is a powerful defense against the enemy’s schemes. However, if trust is ever compromised, there is more strength and power in forgiveness and healing than you may realize.

• Infidelity is painful, but with God, restoration is possible. Through prayer, seeking God’s wisdom, and true repentance, marriages can heal and emerge stronger than before.

• Do not allow the enemy to use betrayal as a tool of destruction. Instead, seek God for healing, restoration, and renewed trust.

• Pray for one another daily from the moment you say “I do” until death parts you. This consistent prayer covering is essential in securing victory over the enemy’s attempts to destroy your union.

Other Attacks on Marriage

Beyond finances, parenting, and fidelity, other challenges can put pressure on a marriage: illness, grief, addictions, workload, friendships, past wounds, or even in-laws. Each of these trials can be overcome by surrendering them to God. Prayer is the key to fortifying your marriage and protecting the seeds planted.

God has the power to change hearts, minds, behaviors, and circumstances. He is the ultimate authority. Try Him, trust Him, and watch Him work. When you commit to prayer and unity, victory is always assured.